What is amazing is that God sometimes takes someone else to make us see our worth. This can be 5th-grade teacher Mrs. Boyd the class was picking on me and then they said I was weird Mrs. Boyd said but he is smart and he does his work and everything changed after that I worked hard to get my grades and I finished college and worked as LCSW for years helping people until I became ill and decided to do something else, kind words mean something that can change a life. Deshauna Barber did not see herself as a beauty Queen she saw herself as a Future Officer and Student in the military full time. But this lady saw her as a beauty Queen, some time kind words can change a life it did for me and Deshauna. So my take on this is to be kind. Say kind words to people you never know what you do can change a life forever. You must believe in yourself at all times and keep pushing and you gotta believe more than anybody else how great you are and the woman who inspired her had died and she was right and now you gotta believe. Like no one else can.